As a 27-year-old mum with two small children, life can be a whirlwind of school runs, playdates, and family time. But in the middle of the chaos, I've learned that feeling good about myself, even in the busiest moments, is so important. One thing that has completely changed how I feel throughout my day is something simple but often overlooked—lingerie. Yes, even on playdate days, wearing the right lingerie helps me feel a little more like "me," and when the kids are in bed, it transforms me into someone ready for date night.
As a buyer for Macy French, lingerie is my world. I know firsthand how the right piece can turn your mood around, making you feel comfortable, confident, and sexy, even when your day is packed with mom duties. So, let me share how I use lingerie to feel my best—from playdates to date nights—and why every woman deserves to treat herself with a little luxury, no matter the occasion. #treatyourself!
Playdate Mornings: Comfort Meets Confidence
Mornings are typically chaotic in my house, with breakfast to make, kids to dress, and myself to get ready. It’s tempting to throw on the same old underwear from the back of the drawer, but I’ve found that starting the day in something that makes me feel put together sets a different tone for the day ahead.
For everyday wear, I gravitate towards soft lace bralettes and seamless briefs. They’re comfortable enough to wear all day while playing with the kids, running errands, or getting things done around the house. But even better, they’re still beautiful and flattering. I love that feeling of having a little secret under my everyday clothes—something that’s just for me, reminding me that I’m more than just a busy mum.
Here are some of my go-to lingerie picks for busy days:
- Lace Bralettes: Soft, breathable, and pretty enough to feel special, even in a T-shirt.
- Seamless Panties: Comfortable but sleek, so there are no visible panty lines under leggings (a mum essential, right?).
- Bodysuits: Perfect for layering under casual outfits—these give a little more structure while feeling incredibly soft.
A Quick Transition: From Mum Mode to Date Night
Now, once the kids are in bed and my husband and I finally have some time together, it's a whole different vibe. Even if we’re just staying in, I love the ritual of slipping into something that makes me feel sexy and feminine. After a long day, changing into lace bodysuits or a silk slip instantly switches my mindset from mum mode to "me" mode. It reminds me of who I am beyond the daily to-do list.
I don’t think we should ever underestimate how much a beautiful piece of lingerie can transform how we feel. When I wear something like a delicate lace bra or a plunging bodysuit, I feel more confident, sexy, and ready to embrace my time with my partner. It’s not about being perfect, but about finding small ways to celebrate ourselves, even after a long day.
Some of my favorites for date nights include:
- Lace Bodysuits: With intricate details and a flattering fit, these pieces make me feel instantly glamorous and sensual.
- Silk Camisoles or Slips: There’s nothing quite like the feeling of silk against your skin. It’s luxurious, soft, and makes me feel pampered, even for an at-home date night.
- Matching Sets: A well-fitting bra and panty set in lace or satin can elevate how you feel in a heartbeat.
Why Lingerie Matters in Every Phase of Life
For me, lingerie is more than just a piece of clothing—it’s a way to connect with myself. Whether I’m taking the kids to a playdate or getting ready for a night with my husband, the right lingerie helps me feel in control and empowered. And let’s be real—being a mum is hard work! We deserve to feel confident and beautiful, whether we’re managing school runs or making time for romance.
So, if you’ve been saving your “nice” lingerie for special occasions, I say—wear it now. Wear it on the days when you feel exhausted, or when you’re heading out to the playground. Wear it on date nights, but also on those quiet evenings in with a glass of wine and a book. Lingerie is about embracing every part of who you are, from the multitasking mum to the woman who still deserves to feel sexy and seen.
The Transformation Every Woman Deserves
Ultimately, lingerie has become my little secret weapon in transforming how I feel throughout my day. It takes me from playdate to date night, from feeling like a mum to feeling like a woman who’s still sexy, confident, and deserving of luxury. And every time I slip into something special, I remind myself that I’m worth the effort.
If you’ve never thought of lingerie as something you can use to empower yourself and boost your confidence during a busy day, I encourage you to try it! Because when you feel good on the inside, it changes everything—even on the busiest and most challenging of days.
So lets toast to embracing the small moments, finding joy in the chaos, and feeling beautiful every day.
XOXO
Sarah
